DATING & RELATING
NAVIGATING LIFE POST-DIVORCE
THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO CREATE THE LOVE & THE LIFE YOU HAVE DREAMED OF
RULES? NO RULES?
DO-OVERS & MAKE OVERS
Don't be indifferent!
IT'S TIME TO TAP INTO LOVE
DATING & RELATING
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF ALL OF THIS?
Swipe right, swipe left. Text or call? Coffee date, dinner date? Drinks? Who pays? Do you kiss on the first date? When do you have sex? When do you call, when does he call? How much is too much texting? Are there rules? What do I do? What do I say? What do I wear? *SCREAM*
It's a no wonder most women say they DO NOT enjoy dating. I also hear:
"Men don't want relationships."
"Men have too many choices."
"Dating is exhausting! I'd rather be single!"
"I'm worried I won't know what to do when it comes time to having sex."
But the most common thing I hear women say is..."I'm SCARED."
And guess what? Men share the same sentiments. Yes, the SAME! Trust me; dating feels confusing and scary to them too. But if everyone is feeling the same frustrations, then why aren't there more happy, love-filled relationships out there? Why are we finding ourselves repeating the same patterns, feeling the same heart-break, doing the same sh*t over and over again?
The answer is simple. (Warning: This may not be the answer you want to hear.) It's YOU! That probably felt a little harsh, and along the lines of tough love critical, but the best part about understanding this is that it's also the simplest to address. Let me be clear, I said simple, not easy. You're smart. You know you can't control anyone else's actions, thoughts, and feelings. (If you don't know this, stop reading and find yourself a damn good therapist.) But seriously, you CAN control YOU. To be successful at dating and relating, you must learn how to do you. And it starts with what I call The Three C's of Relating.
THE THREE C's OF RELATING©
Most of us move blindly through life without much clarity about what we want, curiosity about what's possible, or the tools to communicate what we need. We expect our partners to read our minds and somehow figure it out. We even go as far as saying things such as, "I shouldn't have to tell you how to (fill in the blank) if you loved me, you'd just know." or "This relationship thing is sooooo hard!"
It's time to stop feeling the struggle! I want to help you end the cycle of disappointment and shift your perspective to one of ease and pleasure.
ARE YOU READY TO DISCOVER THE FUN IN DATING, RELATING, AND CREATING THE LOVE AND LIFE YOU DESIRE?
Welcome to your next!